What is a bdsm munch

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But what is a munch? What can you expect from the people there? And what should you do to attend? Why should you attend a munch? This is often the first step in exploring the BDSM lifestyle in real life, rather than online. You can meet people, make contacts, ask questions, and just enjoy your time out without worrying about keeping your secret desires secret any longer.

Because my Dom is married, a munch is one of the few places that we can appear in public other than parties as a couple practicing Power Exchange. I can call Him Master, serve Him and be submissive without worrying about kids popping into the room at inconvenient times. Attending a munch is also often the first step towards attending a party.

Many party organizers will ask for a reference before accepting your registration. They may not know you well, but because you went to the munch they know you are interested in the lifestyle and have made an effort to the community.

So, what is a munch? It is hosted by one or two members of the community, who basically decide that they want a monthly get together in their area. Finding a location is harder than it sounds. Many munches move from place to place once the owners or staff of the restaurant find out what the group is about.

Before one munch one of the kitchen staff hung a cartoon of a duck in bondage at the entrance to our room. And several desserts appeared with candy teddy bears posed in pornographic positions. You might think that this destroys our privacy, but the patrons all seem content to let us be, other than continually trying to pick up one particular pretty slave each time. She laughs it off but they keep trying!

As the munches are in a vanilla setting, most do not allow scening or obvious fetishwear. There is, of course, a huge range of interpretations for these two rules. I dress up for the munch in what I hope are suitably sexy clothes for the subhost representing her Master. At our munch collars are acceptable, at others they are not. We investigated one complaint from a witness who thought she saw a scene of a newbie being pressured. After interviewing both parties, we determined it was a tease. If in doubt, quietly speak with the hosts of the munch.

The same goes if YOU are the newbie feeling pressured. No one is allowed to touch or pester you without your permission. Tell the offending party that you do not consent to their behavior. If it does not stop, speak with the hosts of the munch about the person bothering you. Any Dom who hears that will generally come to your rescue.

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