How to give a blow job without gaging

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In this week's Sex IDK column, Emma McGowan, certified sex educator and writer, answers your questions about giving oral sex if you have a sensitive gag reflex. Q: I have a very bad gag reflex and it makes me self-conscious giving blow jobs. My boyfriend is very supportive, but is there any remedy for this? I love this question — for fully selfish reasons. The very first sex question I ever researched was how to give a blow job.

The questioners were my two best friends and we were freshmen in high school. So I went to the library and researched it! Are you trying to get his penis all the way down your throat aka, deep throat every time you give your boyfriend head? Because that could be the issue in and of itself. But blow jobs do not require deep throating, despite what you may have seen in porn.

Truly excellent blow jobs can be given and received without a penis going anywhere near the back of the throat. If your mouth is full of penis, then you have to breathe through your nose. I know that sounds super obvious, but sometimes we get so focused on the oral sex part of things that we forget about the breathing part. It will help you stay calm, and also relax your throat so that your gag reflex is less likely to be triggered. Head to your local sex-positive sex shop or to Unboundmy favorite online sex shop and get yourself a dildo.

Then, practice! It might feel a little bit silly to practice on your own, but there's nothing embarrassing about it. Just like any other activity you want to become better at, practice makes perfect when you're giving head. If dildos are out of reach financially, certain fruits and veggies— like cucumbers, for example, although you might want to start with the Persian ones — can be a good substitute.

Also, don't forget to wash them! Put a clean! Hold your finger at that point for as long as you can. As you get used to the sensation, add in some movement to better simulate a blow job. Not only do they help you control how deeply the penis penetrates your mouth, but they also can provide extra stimulation.

Focus your mouth on the head of the penis which has more nerves than the rest of it and when your mouth needs a break, use just your hands for a while. With all of that spit and sensation, you get a break when you need it and your partner gets a great blow job with a sloppy hand job assist.

Probably the most common position for blow jobs is the person with a penis on their back, while their partner leans between or on either side of their legs. Same goes for giving head on your knees. Believe it or not, the best blow job angle for not triggering the gag reflex is lying on your back with your head hanging over the edge of a bed. This creates a straight line from your lips down your throat, which makes it less likely that your throat will get poked and your gag reflex triggered.

Like all things, practice makes perfect when it comes to giving gag-free blow jobs. If you're into it, go for it! And, bonus: This is one of those times in life when the journey is just as fun as the destination.

By Emma McGowan.

How to give a blow job without gaging

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